Bangkok- City with the longest name!

 The full name of Bangkok when transliterated into English is “Krung Thep Mahanakhon Amon Rattanakosin Mahinthara Ayuthaya Mahadilok Phop Noppharat Ratchathani Burirom Udomratchaniwet Mahasathan Amon Piman Awatan Sathit Sakkathattiya Witsanukam Prasit” which is often shortened to “Krung Thep” or “Krung Thep Maha Nakhon” in official parlance.

The name “Krung Thep” means “City of Angels” in Thai, while the full ceremonial name is more of a series of descriptions that roughly translates to “The city of angels, the great city, the residence of the Emerald Buddha, the impregnable city of Ayutthaya of God Indra, the grand capital of the world endowed with nine precious gems, the happy city, abounding in an enormous Royal Palace that resembles the heavenly abode where reigns the reincarnated god, a city given by Indra and built by Vishvakarman”. Lot of the words are from Pali/Sanskrit. One finds an amazing amount of shared history and mythology between India and Thailand. The evidence is everywhere from their temples, museums, customs and traditions and even the names of Royal family. Originally, Bangkok was known as Thonburi Si Mahasamut (ธนบุรีศรีมหาสมุทร, from Pali and Sanskrit, literally 'city of treasures gracing the ocean') or Thonburi, according to the Ayutthaya Chronicles [1].

Bangkok most definitely is a name given by foreign visitors who decided to make it easier for themselves just as they did for many of our cities like Trichy from Tiruchirappalli, Trivandrum from Thiruvanthapuram, Belgaum from Belagavi, Pondicherry from Pandiyargal Perum Vedam and so on. While most of us are busy doing verbal equivalent of vrishchikasana to be able to pronounce all the continental fashion brands, in those days it was not a priority. Times thankfully changed and now we are more mindful of the local ethos, culture and language. Remarkably, Thailand was never colonized by any of the western powers due to a unique combination of factors and ingenuity of the ruling6 Siamese Kings, esp., Chulalongkorn.


Personally, it deeply enhances my travel experience, understanding, satisfaction and knowledge if I research beforehand about the ways of our destination country. I also believe that apart from essential vocabulary, one needs to know about particular gestures, body language, etiquette and ways to be more tuned to the local culture so as to avoid misunderstandings.

Few of the most helpful things to know was to greet with a wai (the Indian namaste gesture or palms pressed together in the front of your chest and lowering our heads) and say Sawasdee (Sah-Wa-Dee), Sawasdee Ka for women and Sawasdee Khrab for men. We can say Sawasdee without the wai also. One must also say Khwop Khun Ka/Krub meaning ‘thank you’.  These things instantly made the other person respond positively with a smile.


Unfortunately, we didn’t have time to explore Ayutthaya and Chiang Mai. Ayutthaya for the very obvious historical significance and connection and Chiang Mai for its well-known natural beauty. Logistics didn’t permit us to make the trip further northwards, and the journey is slated for another time. We also missed out on a local train journey from Pattaya to Thailand as the timings didn’t suit our travel plans. But for those with the luxury of time, one must plan for the above mentioned. Many also ask me about Phuket, Koh Samui and other island retreats. Well, I didn’t have my husband around on the trip, how was I supposed to enjoy the honeymoon vibes these touristy places were advertising? Plus, my sister-in-law had already visited these locations. Hence, we decided to include Pattaya instead, which was closer and a beach town and also offered a completely different laid-back vibe.

 

Stay tuned for more…next Bangkok – Day 1


[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bangkok#Name%

Bangkok: How? When? What?

“To finish the moment, to find the journey’s end in every step of the road, to live the greatest number of good hours, is wisdom.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

“In an age of speed, I began to think, nothing could be more invigorating than going slow. In an age of distraction, nothing can feel more luxurious than paying attention”. Pico Iyer

There is a time to let things happen and then there is time to make things happen…and for me it was time to take on the reins and make things happen! I got the offer from our family elder to plan a journey to the most feasible location abroad for our immediate family. The budget was to stay under 2 lakhs in total for 5 people. After dawdling for two months due to an impasse created as five people couldn’t agree on one destination, I got the ultimatum to get things moving.

Near the Boat Jetty, Old City

And so, it was Thailand- VISA free and the flights were cheapest in comparison and off-season rates were available for stay and events. Moreover, contrary to popular misconception, Thailand for me had a lot to offer as a family destination. I guess it depends on what lens you choose to wear. I was seeing fantabulous opportunities for family fun plus some more on the side for me and my sister-in-law.

My gallant hero, as usual was not interested in travel abroad. He loves to drive but once he hits the location, it is literally the hammock, the pool, or the Golf course for him. Nothing else moves him apart from great non vegetarian food somewhere.

So, flights were booked the same day, followed by Airbnb in three different locations. We were all set to fly! The plan was to land in Bangkok Suvarnabhoomi on 26th of May afternoon and head to Phra Nakhon area (the old city) for 2 days and then to Pattaya on the 28th for two days and back to Bangkok (in Huai Khwang area) for three days.

In Phra Nakhon we stayed at Lisa’s Place (a fully air-conditioned nice, quaint and cozy set up beautifully done with all basics covered- 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms and separate kitchen, dining and sitting space with a functioning washing machine).

Our location was such that we rarely needed to use any other mode of transport other than the ones we were born with. We were good on our feet as all our sightseeing locations were within a kilometre and a half radius. However, the Airbnb had steep steps between the ground and the first-floor bedrooms, so not very convenient if the guests have difficulty climbing.

But overall, perfect for us as the Trok Mor morning market (5 am to 10 am) happened daily right below and around us, so we were spoilt for choice when it came to breakfast. They literally had everything from cute egg-shaped pancakes to rice noodles and stews and soups and grilled veggies and meat and a plethora of options …it was a foodie’s paradise at our doorstep.

Every morning, we all went on a look-out for the best stuff to line our tummy for the day and we were good to go. Considering the fact that I had a heat stroke in Delhi just before leaving for Bangkok, I had to stick to veg options for faster healing and I found that in abundance, again contrary to popular misconceptions.

The sheer number of hygienically cut and packed fruits and veggies, baos and dumplings, fresh home-made soups and rice dishes and a variety of omelettes had me salivating every morning. Many items were pre-packed in combos for comfort. It was a grand treat every morning and a tussle between the brain and the tummy. One pleading for austerity and moderation and the other pushing for gluttony.

Lunch was random wherever we were with sit-down locations/popular Thai restaurants and dinner was mostly packed ones from 7 Eleven around the corner or freshly made pad thai or noodle soups from nearby homely food stalls. Rest of the day, we loaded ourselves with seasonal jackfruits, litchies, mangoes and watermelon and sugar cane juice and Thai teas. We were never short of fresh and good food!

Durians in China Town

Thailand: Did you make any bad decisions?


2 Yaksha statues guarding Wat Arun Entrance and manicured trees on the side
The Yakshas guarding Wat Arun entrance, Bangkok

“Bangkok, like Las Vegas, sounds like a place where you make bad decisions.” Todd Phillips

The above quote about Thailand proved to be otherwise for me personally. Before and after Thailand it has been a constant barrage of enquiries about how I broke the rules in Thailand and how I planned to go bonkers in Thailand. As if the country is solely for people who need to get it out of their systems and that one is free of all censure there. When I share my happy and spiritual experience in the land of Thailand, I am met with wild expressions of disbelief and mockery suggesting that I entirely wasted my sojourn. Really?

I don’t think so!

I had the most amazing time with my kid and in laws!

Okay, again… I can literally hear the loud and deafening guffaws! The knives are already out!

But hear me out peeps, The Land of Smiles has something for everyone as is evident from scores of media out there on the net about varied but undeniably special experience one has over there. Bangkok and Pattaya are really good destinations to experience with an open mind (Not so open that your brains fall out though).

Circles in Time


' Time and tide wait for no man', yet it all depends on us how it moves ahead. 'Butterfly effect', they say. Going through daily events around the world, sometimes I wonder if we ever had any control over anything that happens. It is like we are doomed to make the same mistake over and over again since we always fail to see the bigger picture or we deliberately tune ourselves off from reason. If you know me well enough, you know I'm an optimist at heart. But, maybe it is the corona effect and this is cathartic for me...


Circles in Time

Forever Scored

Memories dull, Emotions swell

Only permanence

Sole soul knoll

Round and round all rhymes go

Wicked little gnomes do tarry

      Gnawing gnawing knowing…

 

Circle time,

Time, our stoic coach,

Stumbling neophytes

Round and round we go

Blissful herd of ignoramuses

Grazing high on Capital Sins

 

Merry souls would

Always scurry bury bury

Round and round go sacred carvings

Circles in time

Forever etched

On stones

Grave stories they tell

 

Circles in Time

mutable permanence

The ring, mandala, ensō,

Hecate’s Wheel

The same

Eternally unabating

Waltzing rhythms,

Energies synergies

 

We are everywhere

And nowhere

We learn unlearn

Our social memories fickle

Our existence,

Mere spec in time

Condemned to wallow in reprise?













Self

What is Self?


The capital ‘I’

That we hold on to, so dearly,

Is there any ‘real’ coherent self

That we vainly defend


Self is but

A will-o’-the-wisp

A receding wave that never comes back

A sandy desert which changes its contour every moment

A butterfly that eludes our grasp

A constant flux of ideas

A construct

To Fool……To Divide

The Man …….The Woman

The West...........……The East

The Master .....……The Slave

The White........……The Black

The Self…........….The Other


Self is not one, but many,

Self is, but not steady,

It evolves with every word we record,

Every structure we make,

Self is, but not...


# Constructs # Self # Identity # Language


@ Anu Maheshwari. First Published in 2006 in Panorama Magazine, A TakingITGlobal Publication. 


Love at First Sight...


I waited for you in earnest...

Stories I read, tales I spun in my dreams,

The love I felt growing each day in anticipation…

The day my eyes fell upon you; I knew…

Like a moth that flies towards the flame,

The snowflake that falls on your fingertips for warmth alone,

I forgot the world around

I leapt for you with all I had

Pure joy lifting me up, raising me above silly ruses…

Against aches that held me ransom to worldly values

All the love…only love…

Bliss… love… if this is what it is

Little the rest matters,

I will shine bright as the fading star that leaves the sky forlorn

again and again…

to set my eyes upon true love. 


This is what happens when you are away and alone from your love for far too long a time...the seemingly unending separation...memories build up, aches heighten your senses, and a familiar melody, a tune that resonates deep translate into words soon...

I love you...I miss you... 

Time to Learn; Unlearn and Relearn.

“Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” Yoda

“Sometimes good choices are really bad ones, wrapped up in so much fear you can’t even see straight.” 

― Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

At times, there is that momentary overwhelming feeling that everything around you is getting bigger and bigger and like Alice in Wonderland, there is nothing to do but drown in a pool of tears. The current scenario around the world raises some serious doubts about humanity and chances of our survival. So much doubt, fear, hopelessness, distrust, irreverence, and disgust piling up that I wonder at the size of the iceberg below! Although I do play the devil’s advocate, I am an eternal optimist. I sincerely believe that hope is the only thing that can get us through.    

Racism, prejudice, and bigotry exists in all forms everywhere.  I know we are knee deep in shit, but it will help us greatly if we can look at the stars and smile. Lot of people are sharpening their knives, ready to rise, rebel, and shout for what they believe in. And others fight prejudices wherever they see them in person. Although they don’t feel obliged to speak out online publicly, if they can help, they prefer to approach the individual personally. 

Some people around are quick to hurl abuses at the Chinese, coming out with strong convictions of conspiracy theories, of manufactured viruses, and the bullying at the borders (LAC in Ladakh, India). I believe it is important to be conscious of the language and speech we use in such circumstances.  The Chinese and the Chinese Govt are two different entities.  The actions of certain individuals, or groups, or governments cannot be used to stereotype an entire population of unique individuals. Government changes, people can change, boundaries can change, but is it worth losing our humanity over it? Economic decisions and overtures can also happen without the accompaniment of hate spewing posts and vitriol! Our armies and police and other defence agencies are there to take care of military aggressions and issues of law and order. Do we need to hurl stones at each other on top of that? What is our duty as citizens and human beings? Can’t we support our govt, armies, and police and at the same time be decent human beings to others on a personal level. Rhetoric of war is needed for the soldiers to motivate themselves and do their duty. Do we need it in our daily lives to kill time?

I believe reading, travelling, experiencing different cultures broadens our views and I don’t mean, just going places and looking at things as a tourist, disconnected from the surroundings loaded with superficial information about a place and the culture around. It requires empathy, that openness to accept what others are feeling and going through. I am not suggesting that we can all empathise and change the world today. It is easier said than done. What I am hoping for is that we take the first step to understand another human being, their opinions, and viewpoints and just accept that they have the right to feel so. No mocking, no jeering, no judgment, just plain old acceptance!


“never trust anyone

who says 
they do not see color. 
this means
to them,
you are invisible.”

― Nayyirah Waheed


 

Acceptance of all things; not just the obvious differences, but also something seemingly trivial, especially food choices, clothing, fashion, accent, mannerisms, etc.  At the same time, it is absolutely imperative to have a decent amount of self-esteem to begin with. A confident person would always be in a better position to respect and accommodate differences. A person who carries insecurities around in a rucksack will most likely paint everything around in a negative hue!

Covid 19 has confined us all in our ‘safe’ boxes. But I believe it is a chance to read, learn, and watch also. Perhaps learn a new language (it is easier now with so many apps like Lingodeer, memrise, etc). Check out different literatures, listen to songs in different languages, watch drama, documentaries, movies from around the world. Make online friends (following all rules of online safety) and discuss issues. Lot of stuff online is biased and hence it is important to read all possible perspectives to be somewhat informed about issues.  Even our search engines cannot be trusted. The information fed to you is deliberately skewed in the favour of the privileged few. A conscious effort to ignore the first prompts of the search engines has to be made in order to skim even the surface of pertinent issues. Basically, refrain from jumping onto the bandwagon of abuse and attack and have the diligence to patiently know more about things, issues, and people before uttering a single word or taking action.


#No Racism 

#No to Racist Stereotypes 

#No to Algorithms of Oppression ( search engines)

#Respect, acceptance and not just tolerance!

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